We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
This isn't just any
Surrogacy Journey...
…and we’re not a typical surrogacy agency. That’s why surrogates choose us first.
And it’s why we have one of the best surrogate support platforms in the industry.
For the last 3 years, Surrogacy Is has been inspiring the most amazing moms to become surrogates, helping them find their perfect agency, and supporting them along the way, at no cost to them.
Thatās how weāve helped over 1500 candidates start their surrogacy journeys since 2020.
In our search to find the āperfect agencyā for the incredible moms who choose to become surrogates, weāve learned so much. Weāve learned how some of the most solid and supportive agencies thrive, and weāve learned where many break down, even the best ones.
And in this search, weāve realized somethingā¦ to find our ideal agency, we needed to create it ourselvesā¦ and now we’ve done just that.
Surrogacy stories from
Real-Life Supermoms
Scroll & click to view our real surrogate stories.
Here's what to know about how we advocate for surrogates...
We’ve designed our agency with YOU in mind…
We will be honest about whether or not we have parents who are looking for candidates just like you. If we don’t have the right match for you, we can share your profile with our partner agencies that we’ve vetted and trust, so you don’t waste hours filling out long-form applications only to be turned away or ignored or worse ā land with an agency you regret!
We insist on stellar communication…
From your first contact with us, all the way through Intake, Matching, and Journey Coordination, you will always be up to date and have clarity on what’s coming next. If you have questions, you can count on us to pick up the phone or reply to your text or email the same day.
We help you findĀ fairĀ surrogacy compensation
We help you to set your base surrogacy compensationĀ to make sure it’s fair and you are getting what you deserve for the generous gift you’re giving! Aside from your base, our benefit package is thoughtful and among the best (if not THE BEST) in the industry, because it was designed by surrogates who know the sacrifice it takes to help someone bring their baby into the world.
We’re with you every step of the journey
We provide free coaching to navigate the complex journey, through webinars, our online groups, and one-on-one calls whenever you need it! Each of our Surrogate Advocates are experienced surrogates themselves. Our Journey Coordinators have years of experience under their belts, and bring unique skills to the table such as a background in Social Work, Midwifery, and Mental Health. Our team is committed to providing wrap around support for parents and surrogates on this once in a lifetime journey.
And the best part is...
advocating for surrogates benefits everyone.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Morgan & La’Phadra
Surrogate Advocate & Experienced Surrogate
We are true
surrogate advocates
A surrogate advocate is a person or group who truly advocates for the brave, amazing moms who decide to become surrogates.
We take being surrogate advocates very seriously. Being a surrogate advocate isnāt a marketing gimmick. Itās not a side-hustle. Itās everything.
Surrogates, in our eyes, are the most important piece of this equation. And being surrogate advocates doesn’t mean we don’t advocate for intended parents.
Quite the opposite.
We believe that advocating for surrogates is the key to the smoothest and most successful surrogacy journeys possible.
While most agencies say they āadvocateā for the surrogate, do they really?
If you think about it, the perspective many agencies have comes down to human nature. Most agencies are intended parent focused, because thatās the ultimate client theyāre designed to serve. And thatās okay! We serve intended parents, too!
After all, the purpose of a surrogacy agency is to help intended parents achieve their dream of having a baby, and we think thatās an absolutely noble purpose. Itās our purpose, too!
But far too often, the surrogateās interests can be dismissed, so a true surrogate advocate helps balance that equation.
Weāre not looking to tip the scales, just balance them.
No, we donāt think so. If someone truly advocates for surrogates, the interests and experience of the surrogate should be the mission of the company. Their organization should be surrogate focused first & foremost.
That doesnāt mean that intended parents arenāt a focus, as well. But itās our philosophy that, a well-prepared, well-informed, well-supported surrogate is the cornerstone of the most successful surrogacy journeys.
How we serve intended parents is by taking great care of the surrogates who make the surrogacy journey possible.
And we’re not talking about creating surrogacy divas here. Weāre talking about ensuring equal support, and mutual respect. We believe that, if the end goal is for the intended parent(s) to bring home their sweet baby, and for the surrogate (and her family) to have their lives changed in the most positive way, this is how itās done.
Hereās whatās important to know about us. Weāre surrogate advocates first. That’s how we started, and that’s what we’ll always be.
Every surrogate that goes through our process gets the following things that most (all?) agencies donāt offer:
- A surrogate advocate who supports you through your journey 100% free
- Access to a library of video and other resources to help you feel confident and prepared each step of the way
- Ongoing mental health support throughout the journey and up to 6 months postpartum
- One-on-one IVF Education and Injection Support
Most surrogacy agencies have long lists of intended parents waiting to be matched with their perfect surrogate. If an advocacy group is owned by such an agency, it might be difficult for them to truly encourage any surrogate who enters their process to consider all of her options when they really want her to work with their agencyāregardless of whether thatās the best fitĀ for her.
Because we spent our formative years building a platform and relationship with our partner agencies, it’s easy for us to know what each of their IP clientele is looking for and when a surrogate might be happier and have a better match through another program than our own. We only want to manage journeys that we can do an excellent job, so if we cannot offer that to a surrogate candidate, we have no motivation not to be honest about that!Ā
And hereās whatās important for you to know about working w/ Surrogacy Isā¦ we’ve spent the past 3+ years getting to know the ins and outs of over 100 agencies, and in that process we’ve narrowed it down to a small handful that truly meet the bar we set for our partners ā if my sister wanted to be a surrogate, would I feel confident referring her to this agency? If the answer is not a resounding yes, then we don’t refer to them. It’s that simple.Ā
But all this knowledge has also empowered us to create a program so special and unique, that takes the lessons from the best of the best and pitfalls we’ve seen so many agencies run into throughout our careers in this industry, that Surrogacy Is as an agency, is truly a gold standard in Journey Coordination and Support for Surrogates and Intended Parents. We’re so excited to be able offer this option to Surrogates and IP’s and make the journey feel seamlessĀ from beginning to end. We live for this work and to hear those words at the end of every journey “I could not have done this without you.”
We’ve got you.
Not just an agency, but yes.
We started off as surrogate advocates, and we’ll always be surrogate advocates first and foremost.Ā
We’re not an agency that starts a “surrogate advocate group” as a marketing gimmick. If you’re already an agency, why not just advocate for surrogates as an agency, if you truly care about advocating for surrogates?
And there are agencies that truly do this for surrogates, don’t get us wrong. For example, the agencies we provided in the past as options for you are agencies who truly advocate for surrogates.
So, if anything, we’re surrogate advocates that started an “agency” to better serve our surrogates. If we can be the best option and fit for what you need in your journey, then we should be your agency.
Can you see the difference?
So, if you haven’t yet, take our 8-minute quiz, then schedule a 1-on-1 call with a surrogate advocate (theyāre experienced surrogates, too!) and they can walk you through what surrogacy could look like for you and your family!
(The content above has been updated to better fit our definition of what a surrogate advocate is. To see our original copy, click here.)
We understand
every surrogate is unique.
The journey of surrogacy is an amazing, life-changing experience.
Moms get to help another family get started while bringing herself the opportunity to do the things sheās always dreamed of for her own family.
Every single woman who volunteers to take on this journey to help another family become whole, does so with lots of different ideas, expectations, and motivations.
Whether you’ve seen first-hand the struggles of infertility for someone you love and care about, or you are simply exploring the idea out of curiousity, it’s important that you are informed about the process, the risks, and the rewards of helping someone else in such a tremendous way.
As much as intended parents have ideas about who they want their surrogate to be, and how they imagine her lifestyle and values while caring for their unborn child, surrogates also have expectations and hopes for the type of family they want to share this journey with. Itās our goal to connect amazing moms with the right surrogacy agencies to bring their dream to life, too.
We believe with all our hearts that surrogacy is family, sisterhood, strength. Surrogacy isā¦ Love.
Kristina
Experienced Surrogate
There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.
A smooth journey requires
the right professionals.
A good surrogacy agency matches surrogates with hopeful people who want to have a baby. They thoroughly screen potential surrogates and parents and guide them through the entire process, including timely disbursement of funds to the surrogate, and providing support until a short while after delivery.
BUT, NOT ALL SURROGACY AGENCIES ARE CREATED EQUAL.
There are so many parties involved in the delicate emotional, legal and financial process and agency oversight is a must.
The right agency will make sure all medical bills are taken care of by the trust and escrow so that nothing remains on the surrogateās shoulders after delivery.
We empower you to
design your journey.
Unlike going directly to any other agency, we have your best interest in mind from the jump. If we can’t meet what you’re looking for, we’re not afraid to tell you ā but not just that, we’re equipped to help you find it through one of our trusted partner agencies!Ā
Whether you find yourself fitting in perfectly with our program, or you choose one of our trusted partners, the agency will be responsible for communicating between attorneys, doctors, psychologists and others to make sure everyone is in the loop at all times so you donāt have to balance all the details.
What sets us apart
from others...
Our founders have been surrogates 2 and 3 times each, and have worked closely with dozens of agencies throughout their careers.
Our Surrogate Advocates, who are also experienced surrogates, know what itās like to be in your position both as novice first time surrogates and with more experience.
We know what it’s like to pick an agency and wonder, “was that the right choice? Did I choose the right agency?”
Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know, so we’re here to help you decide, whether it’s our program, or one of the vetted agencies we partner with. You will land in a safe place with real people who will consider what you want out of your surrogacy journey, and help you get there.
We’ve been called “Surrogacy Doulas”… we think that fits us well!
Kelsey
Experienced Surrogate
So... what's it like
to be a surrogate?
We’re looking for unicorns like you
You may not realize it, but your bodyās ability to create a healthy baby AND bring it into the world isnāt just amazing ā itās rare.
You may not have felt special as you struggled to see your feet and you stopped fitting into your bras, but we promise: you really are so, so freaking special.
And we need moms just like you to bring joy to a family in the making and to your family as well.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Are we the real deal?
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Meet Our Founders...ā¤ļø
Sunshine Hanson
Founder, President, 3x Surrogate
If you ever get the pleasure of meeting our co-founder, Sunshine Hanson, youāll quickly realize sheās as warm as her name suggests and as fun as her ever-changing hair color.
Another thing thatās hard to miss about Sunshine is her passion for surrogacy.
In 2017, Sunshine transitioned from teaching high school English to working in the surrogacy industry. With her experience as a 3x gestational surrogate, she wanted nothing more than to be a part of helping surrogates have beautiful journeys.
But as she dove into the industry, Sunshine couldnāt shake the feeling that there just wasnāt enough advocacy, transparency, and support in the community. That feeling grew so strong that Sunshine knew she had to do something bigger to improve the surrogacy industry.
Together with her husband, Kyle, she used that feeling to build Surrogacy Is. Shortly after launch, they recognized the need was larger than they anticipated, and they needed help to fulfill their mission, and her former colleague, Casey, was the missing piece of the foundation. Together, they formed a dedicated team and created an advisory program where surrogates could learn about the process and feel confident in their choices. Then, after 3 years, the dream evolved even further when the team found that intended parents werenāt getting the same considerations. Determined to do what feels right for everyone involved, the Surrogacy Is agency was born.
When Sunshine isnāt sharing her tips and surrogacy stories online or spreading her infectious passion about surrogacy, you might find her relaxing in the pool with her daughter and three dogs, or testing out a new brunch spot in Savannah.
Casey Bojorquez
Founder, Vice President, 2x Surrogate
She won’t rest until everyone is taken care of.
Have you ever met someone who instantly made you feel so good inside? Someone who just radiates love and makes you feel safe like you can trust theyāll always be on your side? Thatās Caseyāour co-founder, Vice President, and collective mama of Surrogacy Is.
On a deeper level, Casey Bojorquez is a two-time surrogate with over a decade of experience working in the surrogacy industry. Throughout her work, she couldnāt help but feel similar sentiments as Sunshine about the industryā so she was thrilled when Sunshine and Kyle approached her about joining forces to create something better for the surrogacy world.
Casey started out by developing a more comprehensive surrogate outreach and community program, but she as time went on, she dreamt of doing more. Instead of trying to find the best agencies to recommend to new surrogates, she believed Surrogacy Is could become the perfect agency for both surrogates and intended parents.
So, thatās exactly what the team set out to do, and the direction of Surrogacy Is shifted to create a space where surrogates and intended parents are advocated for and supportedāevery step of the way.
When our lovely Casey isnāt making waves in the surrogacy world, she can be found enjoying time with her husband and four daughters at the beach or hiking a new trail.
Kyle Hanson
Founder, CEO, CMO, Husband to 3x Surrogate
(that counts, right?)
Once a skepticā¦ now a surrogacy evangelist.
If youāre ever looking for a mediocre Dad joke, Kyle is your guy. If jokes arenāt your thing, heās also really good at having heart-to-hearts with surrogate partners or offering the absolute best forms of encouragement.
Our co-founder, Kyle Hanson, is the type of guy who loudly roots for you, whether youāre a surrogate or an intended parent. He wants you to have the most empowering, informative, and supported surrogacy journey possible.
Why? Because he watched his wife Sunshine go through the journey of surrogacy first-hand as a surrogate, and he witnessed the boss energy it takes for a woman to be a surrogate. He also got to meet (and bond with) both sets of her intended parents. He heard their unique paths to parenthood and sympathized with everything they had gone through to have their biggest dream come true.
When Kyle & Sunshine started talking about the idea of Surrogacy Is, it didnāt take long for him to develop what is still the base framework for how Surrogacy Is reaches so many amazing moms, every single day. In fact, he immediately started working tirelessly behind the scenes to make it a realityāand he remains the āwizard behind the curtainā for everything that helps Surrogacy Is run today.
During the day, you can usually find Kyle putting out tech fires, rallying up the marketing team, and sending a good (great?) GIF in the team chat. When he logs off, heās usually cruising the coastal Georgia rivers with Sunshine and their daughter, Jasmine, or heās catering to Dee Dee, Adora, and Finny, the family dogs. You might also find him performing a drum solo on any and every available surface.
They say it takes a village to raise a child. Sometimes, it takes a village to have a child.
Real Surrogates. Real Stories.
Kristina’s surrogacy story
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Morgan’s surrogacy story
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Would you still be a surrogate...
without Surrogacy Is?
Frequently
asked questions
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Surrogacy is a process where a woman carries and delivers another person or couple’s child. This pregnancy happens through in vitro fertilization (IVF), which means this woman does not have any biological connection to the baby.
The surrogate is the āgestational carrier;ā this means she is providing the womb to carry the embryo for the Intended Parents (IPās).
In surrogacy, there are Intended Parents, agencies, and surrogates.
The Intended Parents (IPās) are the individuals looking to build their family or bring a baby into the world. The agencies work directly with the IPās, helping them find the right surrogate candidates, coordinating with attorneys, helping with logistics (insurance, psychologists, contracts, etc.) and supporting them in the decision-making process. This way the IPās can focus on developing a relationship with the surrogate! And the surrogates are the incredible mamas who help make it all happen!
Yes, but more. 
First & foremost, we’re Surrogate Advocates who support amazing moms in their surrogacy journeys. That’s how we started in 2020… solely working with surrogates. We’ve been helping amazing moms choose from vetted, ethical surrogacy agencies who are motivated to do their best work for our candidates.
We’ve taken all that experience and created what we like to think is the ideal agency not just for the amazing moms who choose to be surrogates, but also the hopeful parents-to-be who are putting their all into the mission to bring home their bundle of joy.
Throughout our first 3 years solely working w/ surrogates as advocates, we’ve realized something: There aren’t as many agencies who truly advocate for parents and surrogates as we’d like… believe us… we’ve searched.
So we decided to start an agency of our own.
There’s no one perfect agency, but we’re dedicated to becoming yours.
We offer a quick (free!) quiz to help you see if youād be a good candidate for surrogacy. Click here to take it now! |
There are several requirements for surrogates (in order to protect the health of both the surrogate and the baby). You can find them on our requirements page. Here are a few: –Ā Ā Ā Ā having at least one successful, full-term pregnancy –Ā Ā Ā Ā being within a recommended age range –Ā Ā Ā Ā having a āhealthyā BMI – Ā Ā free of tobacco and recreational drugs –Ā Ā having a strong support systemĀ To be honest, some of these requirements can be confusing (or, frankly, feel a bit limiting). So, once you take the quiz, if you have questions, feel free to reach out to us! Weād be happy to explain, provide clarity on your qualifications, or work with you on the next steps in your journey. |
We put āhealthyā in quotes for a reasonābecause whatās considered āhealthyā is so different for each person! And, depending on a myriad of other factors, you may not need to fall exactly within this range.
However, a BMI between 18-32 is recommended because this is what is considered medically healthy for a surrogate undergoing IVF and other treatments along the journey.
A BMI that falls under the range may be too low for a safe pregnancy and delivery. It may also point to underlying health conditions for the surrogate. A higher BMI can impact the effectiveness of the IVF treatment, how your body responds to the medication, and ovarian function in general. A higher BMI can also lead to pregnancy and birth complications, too, which is why this requirement is setānot only for surrogates but at all fertility clinics.Ā
In short, the BMI range is all about ensuring the healthiest pregnancy possible.Ā
First of all congratulations! Only 4 out of 10 women who take the quiz meet all of the requirements, so it’s super rare to have both the heart and the health history to qualify as a surrogate!Ā
The next step after passing our 8-minute quiz is to schedule a Q&A with one of our awesome surrogate advocates. Theyāre experienced surrogates, too! Theyāll walk you through the whole process, help to build your profile, determine your ideal compensation, and match you with the best agency out there specifically to match your unique wants, needs, and personality.Ā
Yes! You can become a surrogate if youāve had tubal ligation.
Tubal ligation is a surgery that involves cutting and tying the fallopian tubes (which prevents an egg from entering the uterus or sperm from passing from the tube to the egg).
In surrogacy, pregnancy happens through IVFāwhere the fertilized egg/embryo is transferred directly to the uterusāwhich doesnāt involve the tubes at all! So, in short, you can still bring your IPās baby into the world even after tubal ligation.
- Typical compensation packages for surrogacy consist of a base compensation ranging from $45,000 ā $75,000, based on several factors plus additional payments for milestones leading up to and throughout the pregnancy, such as medication start, embryo transfer, maternity clothing at second trimester, and more.
- All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parentsā IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
- Compensation and Benefit Packages typically start once legal contracts are signed and a trust account is fully funded with the entire surrogate compensation and expenses.Ā
- Surrogates receive their base compensation in monthly installments throughout the pregnancy.Ā
Read more about surrogacy compensation: https://surrogacy.is/compensation/
No, your eggs wonāt be used in the surrogacy process.
There are two types of surrogacyātraditional and gestationalāand with gestational surrogacy (the type of surrogacy we focus on!), the IPās eggs and sperm will be used.
So, in short, the surrogate will not be biologically related to the baby at all.
Although it might seem strange that your significant other needs a background check, this is a requirement in place to protect all aspects and all individuals in the surrogacy journey.
A background check (both for the surrogate and her spouse) helps to ensure the safety of the environment for surrogate and baby during pregnancy and birth.
(Donāt worry, the Intended parents undergo a background check too!)
Yes, you canāt have more than 2 C-sections (or 3 with a clearance letter from your OB) or more than 6 live births.
There are a few required vaccinations for surrogacy: TDAP, Varicella (chickenpox immunity), MMR (measles, mumps, rubella). Others, for example flu and COVID are flexible.
Some IPās may have specific requirements for their surrogate to ensure safety during pregnancy and delivery, or to match their lifestyle and values.
Itās best to first take our short quiz to see if you qualify as a surrogate candidate. When you take the quiz, youāll be able to see and understand the basic requirements.
From there, we will connect with you to learn your goals, perspectives, and valuesāand connect you with an agencyĀ that honors your choices.
Typically, 21-40. We’ve had cases up to 45 get approved by an IVF clinic, but it’s rare.Ā
Every prospective surrogate must be at least 21 years old before she can be approved for surrogacy. This minimum age requirement is set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, based on what experts have identified as the best indicators of success for a gestational carrier.
But most importantly age restrictions exist only to protect the surrogate and the baby’s health and give the best chance for successful outcomes!Ā
For us to help you become a surrogate, you need to be a U.S. citizen or U.S. permanent resident.
Yes! You absolutely can be a single mom and a surrogate. You just need to make sure you have a good support system. You might need emotional support or potentially someone to be with your kids while you are attending appointments or delivering your intended parentsā magical, miracle baby.
No. All medical expenses are covered by insurance or the intended parents/agency. All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parentsā IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
Also, before surrogate pregnancy, typical benefits & compensation can include:
- Monthly non-accountable allowance starting at $250+ per month throughout the journey
- Mock Cycle Fee starting at $500+
- Medication Start Fee starting at $500+
- Signing and other bonuses starting at $1000+
- Embryo Transfer Fee starting at $1000+
- Health Insurance Monthly Premium (actual cost)
- Legal Counsel (actual cost)
Parents that have decided to choose surrogacy have already been through a lot! The couples that I carried for had already fallen in love with the EMBRYOS before they transferred them to my uterus. They knew the sex of the future baby, and that they had all the normal chromosomes they should have.Ā They knew for a decade before trying surrogacy that they would find a way to bring those embryos to life. And thatās the story of a lot of those couples. They have invested so much time, hope, tears, and resources to make it possible for their children to be born. They will never change their mind about it!Ā But if they did (which they wonāt!) there are fully enforceable legal contracts in place, as well as a fully funded trust account that has your entire compensation and medical expenses in it before you even begin IVF medications. The legal contract even has provisions in place for a next of kin, should anything happen to the parents before the baby is born, so there is someone ready and able to take them home and love them when they are born. When you get to the matching stage and hear the parentās stories, you will see. Intended parents love their children just as much as we love our own.
A gestational surrogate becomes pregnant via IVF. The embryo is created in a lab, where the intended mother or donor egg is fertilized with the intended father or donorās sperm. The embryo is then implanted into the surrogateās uterus. With this method, the surrogate is not related to the baby. The majority of surrogacy arrangements are gestational these days.Ā
At first glance, it would seem obvious that a surrogate would get attached to the child, right?!
But as a surrogate, you go into the process with eyes wide open to the fact that the child you are caring for is not your own.There is not that sense of yearning you have when youāre carrying your own child, wondering if it will have your eyes or your husbandās nose. You are not choosing the babyās name. Youāre not imagining all of the big moments the way you do with your own sweet babies!
You go into the pregnancy in a very non-romantic, science-based way, and you know that this kidās parents loved her before she was ever conceived, and fought so hard to make her life a reality.
In fact, you probably will feel more attached to the intended parents, and not the baby.
Nope! We partner with agencies all over the US, who work with surrogates, intended parents, and hospitals all over the US.
If you prefer a local match or less travel, we will help you find agency options that meet your needs, but geography won’t hurt your ability to become a surrogate.
Once we review your agency options with you and you choose your ideal agency, you’ll complete their intake process until you’re cleared to match. There are a lot more intended parents than surrogates, so matching is usually fairly quick for surrogates. From the time you complete the intake process to match, it takes about 30 days on average.Ā
šÆ you do! We work hard to find you the right agency who has the type of intended parents you want to help. We have a great relationship with our agencies, and they know how important it is to us that they find you the intended parents you’re hoping for!
While there are very few companies who call themselves surrogate advocates, we’re definitely not all the same. For example, Surrogacy Is…ā¤ļø is founded and privately owned by experienced surrogates whose singular focus is to advocate for other women entering this process, in the way we wish we’d had when we were starting out.
At Surrogacy is… being a surrogate advocate is not a “gimmick” or a sales pitch. It is in the DNA of each member of our organization, and our sole purpose for existing.
While there are others out there who call themselves “surrogate advocates” most are owned or funded by agencies whose interest is to recruit surrogates into their program, whether or not it’s the right and best fit for each surrogate.
But wait, didn’t I hear you say that you’re an agency, too?
We’re a surrogate advocate group who created an agency to provide more choice to our surrogates. That’s very different than an agency who creates a “surrogate advocate” group to refer people to their agency.
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Just a mom, my toddler, a typical chaotic trip to Trader Joeāsā¦
and a Surrogate hat that lowkey turns heads ššāāļø
Somewhere between the snack bribery, remembering my reusable bags, and Baby Shark encore, I remembered why I said yes to surrogacy in the first place.
Because this wild, beautiful, messy love?
I wanted someone else to feel too. š©·
And this hat isnāt just cute, itās a whole story.
A badge of honor. A reminder that I helped create a family and carry love.
Catch me loading up groceries like I didnāt just carry a whole miracle for someone. š
#SurrogacyJourney #DayInTheLife #MomContent #TraderJoesMom #HotMomEra #SurrogateLife #GroceryRun #MessyMotherhood #MomHumor #RealMomLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #SurrogacyIsBeautiful #RelatableMomContent
āWhy do you talk about surrogacy so much?ā
Because itās not just something I did, itās something that changed me.
Itās handing over a baby and watching someone become a parent for the first time. Itās the messages that say, āThank you for making me a mom.ā
Itās hard to do it once and walk away like it was no big deal.
So yeahā¦ I talk about it. I share about it. I advocate for it.
Because if even one woman sees this and thinks āmaybe I could do that tooā, itās worth it. š
āØ Curious if itās right for you? Take the quiz, talk to a surrogate (like me), and just explore it, no pressure.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogateMama #SurrogateSupport #SurrogacyJourney #ProudSurrogate #ChangeALife #Heartwork #NotJustWombWork #OneJourneyAtATime
When a surrogate receives her medication calendar, it means things are āØHAPPENINGāØ. As an IP, you may find that you still want to feel in the loop with what`s going on, and these tips can help you feel more informed about your surrogateās med calendar.
Plus, weāre sharing the ways our agency can help support your surrogate with her medicationsāwhich may increase the chances of a successful transfer! š¤š¤
Have any other questions? Let us know in the comments! Weād be happy to answer them or point you in the right direction.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyEducations #MedCal #IPSupport #IPs #IntendedParents #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
On Bereaved Parents Month, our hearts go out to all the parents whoāve ever had to deal with the heartache of a loss. This includes parents whoā¦
ā¢ Experienced a miscarriage
ā¢ Had a stillbirth
ā¢ Lost their child
ā¢ Struggle with infertility
ā¢ Had a failed transfer/IVF attempt
ā¢ Terminated a pregnancy for medical reasons
No matter the circumstances around your loss, your feelings matter. Your storyā¦ their stories matter.
If youāve experienced a loss and are looking for resources for support, here are some that our community has found helpful:
@london.is.the.reason : support for intended parents and surrogates during a surrogacy loss
@resolveorg : resources and groups for infertility loss or failed attempts
@tearsfoundation : emotional support and financial assistance for funeral arrangements
@nationalshare : provides a network of support groups, online communities, and educational materials for bereaved parents
@firstcandle : grief support for SIDS and sleep-related deaths
@themissfoundation: providing CARE (counseling, advocacy, research, and education) for families experiencing loss
If you know of any others you`d like to share, please do so in the comments for the benefit of our community.
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āDid surrogacy feel like fate for you?ā šāØ
We asked and these beautiful, soul-touching answers poured in.
š¬ āYes, Iāve wanted to be a surrogate since I was 10.ā
š¬ āIt absolutely felt like part of my purpose.ā
š¬ āDoing this helped shape the woman I am today.ā
To the women who dreamed of this path your younger self would be so proud of the love youāve shared with the world. šš
Because giving life through surrogacy is a powerful act of love, purpose, and legacy.
Tag a surrogate or someone whoās always wanted to take this journey. This is for you. š
#SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacySupport #MadeForThis #SurrogateStrong #ActsOfLove #PurposeDriven #SurrogacySisterhood #SurrogateLife #SurrogacyAwareness #WomenSupportingWomen #SurrogateMama #FYP #HealingThroughSurrogacy #EmpoweredWomen #FertilitySupport #ViralReels #IVFJourney #EggDonorSupport #LoveMakesAFamily #SurrogacyCommunity
That consistent whisper inside your mind, thereās a reason why itās there.
Whether itāsā¦ āšš¢šŗš£š¦, š š“š©š°š¶šš„ š£š¦š¤š°š®š¦ š¢ š“š¶š³š³š°šØš¢šµš¦,ā or āš šššš šāš® š®š¦š¢šÆšµ šµš° š£š¦ š¢ š±š¢š³š¦šÆšµ.ā That internal monologue is guiding you to something big. Something youāre destined for. šš
If you have a wish that has been placed on your heart youād like to explore, letās connect!
Surrogates: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
Intended Parents: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourneys #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
Surrogacy gives so many hopeful parents a chance to have a child of their own. It might not be the right choice for everyone, but itās a choice that many parents are so thankful is out there. š
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsFamilies #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacyAgency
We know there are many things to focus on during your journey as an intended parent. You have to find a surrogate, ensure all necessary legal preparations have been completed, and get your home ready for a baby ā the list goes on and on. š
But thereās one thing that many intended parents forget to add to their listā¦and thatās mental health check-ins for themselves. š«¶
This may not feel important compared to everything else, but it is. Becoming an intended parent is an emotionally and sometimes chaotic process. Having the space to explore your emotions and discuss this significant life change with someone who understands can make a huge difference in your experience.
Thatās why Surrogacy Is is proud to offer ongoing psychological support throughout the whole journey. š¤
If you want to find out more, connect with our team through the interest form here: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #Surrogacy #IPSupport #IntendedParents #IPMentalHealthSupport #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
šØ Incoming: LOVE MAIL šš
These purple packages are on their way to the incredible surrogates who just cleared intake and are officially LIVE for matching this week! š
Youāve taken a huge step and weāre cheering you on with a little sparkle, support, and sweet surprises from the Surrogacy Is team. š«
Are YOU one of these rockstar surrogates?! Drop a š„¹ or āØ below so we can shower you with love in the comments ā¬ļø
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Do you know why pineapples became a symbol for surrogacy? š¤·āāļøSwipe through the slides to see if youāre right. ā”ļø
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An Important Message from Our Founder, Sunshine:
If you follow surrogacy news, you might have heard of the allegations of horrific actions by Mark Surrogacy, that are starting to come to light. I hesitated on speaking about it, but I think itās too important not to.Ā
This agency has allegedly duped and misled many surrogates who gave birth to babies, who were not intended for the parents they believed they were going to. These intended families were not real, and now the surrogates and the government arenāt sure where exactly these babies are, or what the agencyās intentions were to have these arrangements handled this way.Ā
It pains me to say this, but there may be even more agencies that are tainting the surrogacy experience. Surrogacy agencies are not regulated, but I believe wholeheartedly that they should be.Ā I myself had an experience with a surrogacy agency that was operating suspiciously and made me question everything. And that was part of the driving force that inspired me to create Surrogacy Is.Ā Ā
While we canāt control every agency,Ā we can choose to make sure we do what is right. Thatās why at Surrogacy Is we verify identities, complete background checks both domestically and internationally (if applicable), require both sides to meet with licensed mental health professionals, and slow things down to make sure a match is right, even when itās inconvenient.
Because no one should ever look back and wonder if the baby they carried is okay.
If youāve ever seen or experienced something in this space that didnāt sit right, youāre not alone. I thank the brave surrogates who are coming forward and sharing their experiences. You did not deserve this experience, and my heart goes out to you and the weight this has on your life. My DMs are open, and weāre here to help you with resources and support, no matter the situation.
In our upcoming āmisconceptions` episode with Sunshine and Casey, weāre talking about one of the most important deciding factors in a surrogacy journey: Compensation! šµ
In the podcast, Casey and Sunshine cover all the key factors to consider, so you can feel informed and empowered when setting your surrogacy compensation (or, if youāre an intended parent, determining your budget for a surrogate).
Theyāll help answer questions, like:
š£ļøHow is a compensation range decided?
š£ļøWhy do some agencies offer this much and others this much?
š£ļøIs compensation negotiable?
š£ļøWhat red flags should you look for around compensation?
And so much more!
šļøSo, make sure to mark your calendars for July 15th, because this is an episode you canāt afford to miss before starting (or moving forward with) your surrogacy journey! š§
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsAPodcast #SurrogacyPodcast #SurrogacyCompensation #SurrogacyMisconceptions #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacySupport
If youāre looking for an agency that truly cares and offers personalized support for BOTH surrogates and intended parentsāyouāre in the absolute right place. šš
At Surrogacy Is, our agency is committed to helping both sides have a fulfilling surrogacy experience. If this sounds like the kind of journey you`re looking for, we`d love to connect and tell you more!
š Surrogates: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
šIPs: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
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š„āØ Come take a little tour of the Surrogacy Is Swag Shop!
From cozy tees to cute totes and sparkle-filled tumblersā¦ itās all here and made just for this community. š This isnāt just merch, itās a movement.
šļø Every piece says:
āØ āThis journey matters.ā
āØ āSurrogates are magic.ā
āØ āLetās make surrogacy visible and stylish.ā
š¬ Tell us in the comments:
Whatās going straight into your cart, and whatās going on your wishlist? šš
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š¦ Everything is sold at cost, and extra change (if there is any!) goes directly to @resolveorg to support family-building resources.
š Use code: SPARKLE25 for 25% OFF + FREE SHIPPING on your first order!
ā”ļø Tap to shop: https://surroswag.com or use the link in our linktree
Tag us when your sparkle mail arrives āØ
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsSwagShop #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacySwag #SurrogacyShop #SurrogacyMerch #SwagWithMeaning #MadeWithHeart š
ITāS TIMMMMMMMMME! Our shop is officially LIVE!
Check it out now and tell us whatās catching your eye. What are you adding to your cart now, and what are you adding to your wishlist for later? Please tell us in the comments!
This shop is meant to be a fun swag store made for the surrogacy community, filled with cozy, cute, conversation-starting pieces that scream:
āØ āThis journey matters.ā
āØ āSurrogates are absolute kweens.ā
āØ āSurrogacy is strength, beauty, and a ton of magic.ā
šļø Shop here: https://surroswag.com/
(Psssst: Use Code "SPARKLE25" for 25% OFF + Free Shipping on Your First Order!)
š Everything is sold at cost
š«¶š½ Extra change (if there is any) goes straight to @resolveorg to help create resources for family-building journeys
š¦ Itās merch made with meaning ā and totally made for you.
So grab your fave tee, tumbler, or tote at big discountsā and when it arrives?
āØ Tag us! Show it off! Share your sparkle.
Because this isn`t just merch, it`s a movement. We will continue to add to the movement with new swag, so be sure to stop by regularly to check out the latest items!
Letās make surrogacy visible. And cute. And comfy. š
Donāt forget to use code: SPARKLE25 for 25% OFF + FREE SHIPPING on Your First Order
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsSwagShop #SurrogacySwag #SurrogacyMerch #SurrogacyShop #SurrogacyShirts #SurrogacyStickers #SurrogacyHats #SurrogacyTotes
July is āFamily Reunionā month. š«¶ When you hear this, your mind might automatically go to the reunions where everyone brings something to a potluck š² And you see your third cousin, you only get to see every couple of years. BUT to us, when we hear āFamily Reunion,ā the first thing that comes to mind is that beautiful moment that happens at birth when intended parents are reunited with their child, thanks to their incredible surrogate. š«
In July, we like to slow down and think about the beautiful reunions we were lucky to be a part of, and celebrate them. If you have a photo of the beautiful moment of reunion during your journey, we would love to see it! Please share this post in your story, along with your photo and tag us.
We canāt wait to see (and share) the love thatās possible thanks to surrogacy, one family reunion at a time. š„°
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsFamily #SurrogacyFamilies #FamilyReunions #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacyFamily
Have you heard what they say? If youāre worried about what kind of parent youāll be, that already means youāre a good one. š¤
Good parents want to be good. šTheyāll try their best not to make a mistake. But hereās the thing. Every parent will mess up at some point.
Itās impossible to pour 100% of yourself into parenting; you just canāt. So, there are bound to be days when something slips through. Days whenā¦ You forgot to pack their favorite stuffie for daycare. š§ø Where dinner consists of McDonald`s in front of the TV, just so you can get a break after a hard day ššŗ Or when all the noises from the chaos push you to be overstimulated, and you lose your cool. š«
This happens to us allāand guess what? It will happen to us again and again. The important thing to remember is to continue to focus on that want to be a good parent, because with that desire in your heart, it will come. Thatās one of the beautiful things about parenting. āØ
#ParentingInspiration #Parenting #ParentsToBe #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #Parents #Parenting #ParentingWins
Happy 4th of July! To celebrate, we have a fun challenge šš
Try to catch our Surrogacy Is oversized sticker lined up with the outline in a screenshot. If you get it just right, send us the proof with a DM. But don`t let the fireworks distract you!
The speedy fingers who are able to catch it in a screenshot (and send it to us in a DM) will be entered into a drawing to win this Surrogacy Is "I`m A Proud Surrogate" Decal! Perfect for your laptop, car, or wherever you want to stick it.
āØWe will do a drawing and announce the winner in our stories on July 11th. āØ
We canāt wait to see your attempts (please send us the bad ones, too š¤£).
Hope you all have a fun-filled dayāand for the sake of everyoneās sanity (especially babies and pets), we wish you a quiet neighborhood by 10 pm. šš
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #4thofJuly #SurrogacyContest #Contest #IndependenceDay #Fireworks #BabyYoureAFirework #USA #RedWhiteAndBlue
Weāre joining in and setting off our own metaphorical fireworks to celebrate our amazing agency recap for June š
These wow-worthy numbers speak for themselves, and we love to see them. š Here is just a snapshot of the incredible things that made June so special for our hardworking team members:
š¶ 5 sweet, new SI agency babies were born!
šāāļø37 new and educated surrogates moved through the intake process
š«¶11 perfect matches were able to start on their exciting journeys together
š±8 embryo transfers (cross all your fingers for these hopeful surrogates and IPs)
We leave for these numbers and the celebrations that mean happy progress towards dreams coming true. š
Please join us in applauding the surrogates, intended parents, and our tireless Surrogacy Is team who get to play such a HUGE part in these inspiring milestones. Give this post a āš ā and show everyone love for another note-worthy month!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsAgencyStats #SurrogacyIsAgencyRecaps #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourneys #Surrogates #IntendedParents #IPs #SurrogacySupport #MonthlyRecap #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
When it comes to supporting someone whoās experienced a pregnancy or infant loss, it can be hard to know exactly what to do. You want to show up for them, but whatās the right thing to do? š
Last October, Kristin McQuaid from @londonisthereason joined Casey and Sunshine on the podcast and shared her honest and raw advice for those looking to support those dealing with that heartbreak.
Kristenās episode is a powerful one and feels especially important to listen to during Bereaved Parents Month. In the episode, Kristen also shares her experience dealing with loss as an intended parent and how her organization, London is the Reason, was founded to honor her daughter, while helping support surrogates and intended parents who have experienced a loss.
š§ Listen to her full episode on our YouTube channel or on Spotify.
Many women are surprised to learn that going through a divorce could delay them from becoming a surrogate. Why? There are three major reasons ā”ļø You can just swipe through our post here to learn what they are.
After you understand the reasoning behind it, you canāt deny that it makes sense. Itās always in your best interest to wait until youāre in a spot where you can fully be present and enjoy your surrogacy journey.āļøāļøāļø
So trust us, itās better to wait until all your court cases are resolved. Surrogacy will be here when youāre ready. And youāll be glad you waitedāyouāll have a much better experience because of it. š«¶
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyRequirements #Surrogates #Surrogacy #SurrogateSupport #SurrogacyEducation #SurrogacyQualifications
When you start to consider becoming a surrogate, itās easy to want to jump right into thingsā¦but itās also so easy to get lost in information on Google. šš«Ø
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In it, we walk through every step in the journey, includingā¦
āØWhat you should consider before starting a journey
āØWhy the requirements are important
āØHow our agency will guide you through every process (intake, matching, journey, etc)
āØWays to care for yourself postpartum
And so much more in between!
Our guide is packed with checklists, videos, and helpful tips from experienced surrogates. Thereās nothing else like it out there, and itās FREE!
If you want to get your hands on this incredible resource, take our qualifying quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
After you finish, youāll get an email with access instructions!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsSurrogacyGuide #SurrogacyGuide #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyResearch
The first trimester in a surrogacy journey is such an exciting time, so it`s totally normal (but totally not expected) to want to celebrate or bond with your surrogate or intended parent during it. š
We see questions all the time asking for gift suggestions. Here are some of our favorites for both surrogates and intended parents.
š£ What surrogacy gifts did you send or receive that you loved during your journey? Share them in the comments for our community. š«¶
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyGifts #SurrogacyIsAGift #GiftsforSurrogates #GiftsforIntendedParents #Surrogates #IPs #IntendedParents #SurrogacyCommunity
To every LGBTQIA+ parent who once dreamt of being a parentā¦ You did it. š¤
You went to extreme lengths to make your family possible. You navigated the donor processes, surrogacy, and legal preparationāall while providing an unwavering reminder that families like yours are worthy of love and acceptance.
You may have had to āworkā harder to become a parent, but one could argue that itās just evidence of how you love harder, too. And now youāre an example to others in your community of what is possible, and how the dream of becoming a parent in the LGBTQIA+ community can be a reality. š³ļøāš
You did it. š
Weāre so proud of you. š«¶
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The Surrogacy Is team has something exciting they would like to drop in the mail for you. (Sadly, the delivery wonāt include any awkward poses or fun flair from our founders, thatās just something fun and special for this video š)
āØWhat comes inside these mailers? Something amazing, we can guarantee that! āØ
Weāre excited to share that our new surrogacy swag shop is days away from being officially open. Be one of the first to shop and snag some of our amazing surrogacy tees, stickers, Dad hats, our surrogacy-style card gameāand more! ššš
And the best part(s)?
š¦ Everything in our shop is sold at cost (any profits made will be donated to @resolveorg).
š¦ New merch will be continually added (so donāt be shy and tell us what you`d like to see!)
š¦ Our super cute swag helps celebrate the amazing surrogacy community!
š³ Follow us and check in often, because the Surrogacy Is Swag Shop will officially be available to shop super soon!
We canāt wait to see what items you add to cart first! š
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsSwagShop #SurrogacySwag #SurrogacyMerch #SurrogacyShop #SurrogacyShirts #SurrogacyStickers #SurrogacyHats #SurrogacyTotes
What do intended parents really think about surrogates being compensated? š«¢ You might be surprised to hear that a majority of them feel very passionately about surrogates being compensated fairly.
And if they believe that, what right does anyone outside of a surrogacy journey have to disagree? Just something to think aboutā¦š
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacyCompensation #Surrogates #IntendedParents #IPs #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyJourney
Today, 10 years ago, love won big. ā¤ļøš§”šššš
On June 26th, 2015, the U.S. Supreme Court declared that same-sex couples have the constitutional right to marry. This powerful decision legalized same-sex marriage nationwide, striking down all current bans on it.
Since then, many have been able to marry their loving partners and build beautiful families. As they should always have been able to. š
At Surrogacy Is, we celebrate marriage equality, and we vow to do whatever we can to make sure this is always protected.
#MarriageEquality #ObergeFell #LGBTQIA+ #LoveIsLove #MarriageEquality #LoveWins #LGBTQIA+Families #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency
šØ Weāre growing and hiring at Surrogacy Is! šØ
Our team is currently looking for
āØ Intended Parent Matching Coordinator
Check out the position details aboveāand if youāre interested in joining our compassionate surrogacy team weād love to hear from you!
Surrogacy Is is proud to offer competitive salaries, 401K & health benefits, and a remote working environment.
Apply today and you could just find yourself in your dream role, making a meaningful impact in the surrogacy world! š
#NowHiring #SurrogacyIs #RemoteJobs #SurrogacyFinanicalCoordinator #MatchingCoordinator
When it comes to being an intended parent through surrogacy, it`s hard to find a guidebook to help you know exactly what to expect... but that`s exactly why we`re here (and working on something that will help with just that!) š
ā”ļø Here are some things you can expect in your first trimester on your surrogacy journey, including ways to bond with your surrogate and take care of yourself!
š£ If you`re an IP, we`d love to know what you would find helpful in an intended parent guide! Please share with us in the comments or with our team!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyJourney #Surrogacy #IPs #IntendedParents #IPSupport #IPGuide #WhatToExpect #Parenting #FamilyBuilding #SurrogacyIsFamily
How would you finish this sentence? Surrogacy is __________
Weād love to hear your answers in the comments. š«¶
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If youāve ever considered being a surrogate and experiencing everything that surrogacy is, please take our short quiz here: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyJourney #Surrogates #IntendedParents #IPs
Your medical records are like the synopsis of your pregnancies. They have all the deets agencies like ours need to know to determine if youād make a good surrogate. š¤°They show our team the story of your past pregnancies and what doctors and parents could expect for a surrogacy journey.š
I know it can seem daunting when we say we need your medical records, but honestly, there is very little you have to do for us to get them. We just need you to sign a release, and we may ask you to reach out to your doctor to give them a heads up and to help speed up the process. ā
If you have any questions about the process, our team would love to hear from you.
To see if you qualify to become a surrogate, take our qualifying quiz here: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #Surrogates #SurrogateSupport #SurrogacyProcesses #SurrogacyQualifications #SurrogacyCommunity
āFor so many intended parents, theyāve wanted a baby for so long, and then they donāt know what to do when the baby is here. I help build their confidence and help them prep.ā
š§In todayās podcast, the incredible Krystal Williams from @bloominglovepdx tells us all about the intended parent support classes she offers and how she helps IPs:
āļø Paint a realistic picture of what life looks like with a newborn + all the care tips, catered to IPs (feeding options, traveling after the birth, etc)
āļø Navigate new emotions with a baby, and why, if the connection isnāt instant, thatās okay!
āļøHow to rely on your personal strengths to balance responsibilities with your partner (if you have one)
āļø Ways to distinguish the helpers & the guests in your inner circle
āļø Why itās important to recognize when youāre reaching your tap-out zone
āļø Reasons why you might want to consider hiring a postpartum doula
And so much more!
If youāre an intended parent, looking for helpful resources, make sure to listen to todayās podcast! Find it here: https://tr.ee/AdiXwx-VZK
šPlus, follow @bloominglovepdx for more insights and class information!
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Want to know who we really are? Try us.
Weāre a surrogacy agency that helps make dreams come trueā¦in the best possible way by guiding and supporting BOTH surrogates and intended parents on their journeys. š«¶
To learn more about us, visit our Linktree or give our account a follow! We promise we arenāt intimidating (although our founder, Sunshine, is quite the convincing actor here). Weāre some of the nicest, most encouraging, and helpful surrogacy teams in the industry! And weād love to show you who we really are!
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Matching can be such an exciting stage in your surrogacy journey. šš¾š„³
You might think matching is as easy as getting a profile, saying āyep!ā and moving full throttle on your journey. But hold your horses. š
There are actual little mini-steps in the matching stage. From having our matching team learn about your journey preferences ā”ļø creating a profile ā”ļøreviewing a surrogate profile ā”ļø and having your clinic review a potential surrogateās medical records. All this is done before a match call is even set up.
This may sound extensive at first, but we found this actually saves you time and money. A match can make or break a whole journey, and we want to avoid rematches or false starts at all possible costs. Plus, have you heard about our matching? Weāre super fast. šØ
We have a 90-day matching guarantee, but a lot of times we are much faster than that. (Psstā¦our all-time record for solidifying a match is 4 hours after intended parents completed intake. š± With all the steps we mentioned above. š± It was insane. š± It doesnāt always happen, but it just shows how committed we are to the process and getting things done for you.)
If you`d like to learn more about our matching process or about our agency in general, please fill out the interest form here: surro.is/parents
Our Match Team will be in touch with you soon afterward!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyMatches #FastMatches #IPs #IntendedParents #IPSupport #IPCommunity #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #Surrogacy
With our agency, weāll never, ever leave you dealing with headaches alone. Weāll be on the phone so fast to find you a new flight āļø track down syringes š or talk you through whatever you need support in. š
Weāre so honored to help amazing surrogates like Aolani have exceptional journeys.
If youāre interested in learning more about becoming a surrogate with our agency, take our qualifying quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogates #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogateSupport #SurrogacyCommunity
We wonāt judge your Google search history if you donāt judge ours. š¤£š¤£
For some Saturday laughs, what is the wackiest thing your kiddo did this week that made you stop and scratch your head? š¤ Tell us in the comments.
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Why do women become surrogates? š«There are so many beautiful reasons.š«
Some women had others around them struggle with infertility and sympathized with their struggles šothers wanted to do something bigger than themselves šand some women say that they couldnāt imagine not being a parent and they wanted to help someone else experience what a blessing it is.
Whatever their personal reason is, weāre thankful for all surrogates. š«¶
If youād like to learn more about becoming a surrogate, take our short quiz to see if you qualify: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyStories #Surrogates #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney
Who gets to make the decisions in a surrogate journeyāthe surrogate or the intended parents? š¤
Actuallyā¦both of them!
A surrogacy journey should be a collaborative effort, with each side being able to share their preferences, because the best matches are when both sides are in agreement on these preferences. š¤
A general rule of thumb is that IPs usually dictate any care decisions related to their child, and a surrogate usually dictates any care decisions involving her.
An example of this might be: A surrogate can decide whether or not she wants a flu shot while pregnant, and the IPs will get to decide what post-birth vaccines their newborn will have.
A lot of these decisions can affect both sides, so we canāt emphasize enough how important it is to discuss preferences early on and the importance of fostering great communication with your surrogate so you both feel comfortable discussing these things together.
If you have any specific questions on this, let us know in the comments, and we can help! If you feel more comfortable talking one-on-one, connect with our team through one of the links below ā¬ļø
Intended Parents: surro.is/parents
Surrogates: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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Why do parents turn to surrogacy?
Intended parents Kristine and T.J. share their story on why they turned to surrogacy after having their two boysāand why now they feel forever indebted to their amazing surrogate for giving them the greatest gift. š
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If you ever thought about helping incredible parents like Kristine and T.J., take our qualifying quiz today: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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Do you have the day off work or school today for Juneteenth? Do you know why? Do your kiddos know what today represents? š¤
Today, it`s essential to acknowledge the significance of this exact day in 1865 when Union troops arrived in Galveston, Texas, to announce the freedom of enslaved black peopleātwo years after Lincolnās Emancipation Proclamation!
That means slavery had officially ended, but over 250,000 Black Americans in Texas had remained enslaved until that day in a deliberate withholding of freedom.
For many, Juneteenth is celebrated as Black Americansā actual Independence Day, especially in the South.
Unfortunately, the history behind Juneteenth has been suppressed from a lot of us, especially the injustice of the delay in ending slavery and the generations of harm it caused. Today serves as a powerful reminder of the resilience of the Black communities and how history can become muddled or purposely overlooked over time. Together, we can commit to honoring Juneteenth as it deserves.
Did you know many people confuse the Pan-African flag with the Juneteenth flag? The Juneteenth flag features a rising ānew starā on a horizon. This imagery is meant to represent new freedom, new people, a new star. While the red, white, and blue colors honor the American Slaves and their descendants. While both the Pan-African and Juneteenth flags are symbols of pride and freedom for Black people, the Juneteenth flag was created explicitly for this holiday.
If you`re looking for authentic ways to honor the history of today, we suggest ā¦
ā Looking for local events happening today
ā Reading up on African American history in our country
ā Or do your best to put yourself in a lived experience different from your own.
Regardless of what you choose to do today, we hope you can make time for learning, reflection, and commitment to equity and justice.
#Juneteenth #JuneteenthCelebration #Juneteenth2025 #Equality #Justice #BlackHistory #BLM #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsInclusive
Compensation in a surrogacy journey can be tricky for some people to understandā¦unless youāre talking to well-meaning surrogates and intended parents. If you ask them, they just get it.
If you want to chat more about surrogacy compensation, letās connect. To start take our qualifying quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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The newborn stage is no joke š« especially if you go into it not knowing what to expect. Unfortunately, for many intended parents, traditional newborn care classes can feel uncomfortableābut as new parents-to-be, they deserve and want to be informed as well. Thatās why we were so excited to learn and chat with Krystal Williams about her Intended Parent Support Classes through @bloominglovepdx š¤
In our next podcast episode, learn how Krystal virtually helps intended parents all over the world prepare for the newborn stage, addressing both the physical š“ and emotional š©demands that new parenthood can bring. Plus, how she can be there to answer all those weird questions that come up after bringing that sweet baby home. (ie, is this noise weird? Should this swaddle be tighter? Is it okay for them to be in the car seat for over an hour?āand everything else in between.) š«¶
š§Make sure to look out for the full episode, dropping next Tuesday!
Plus, make sure to add @bloominglovepdx to your follow list š
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Surrogacy journeys can bring up some powerful feelings. As an agency, we always want to ensure that surrogates never feel alone, while also providing a space for them to explore their feelings and connect with a community that understands and supports them.
Thatās why weāre excited to announce weāve partnered with Dr. Sadaf from @embrahealth to host monthly surrogate webinars.
In these monthly webinars, weāll explore real and raw topics while providing helpful emotional tools, friendly support, and ways for surrogates to connect and have meaningful conversations.
Our first one is THIS Friday, June 20th, and weāre discussing how to handle delays, loss, and the unknown in a surrogacy journey.
Space is limited, so follow the link on our Linktree to secure your spot. (Even if you canāt make it live, youāll get a recording of the webinar so you can watch it later!) Any surrogate is welcome to join us!
We canāt wait to see you on Friday, and we look forward to hearing about the topics youād like to discuss in future webinars!
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One thing you can count on from us is that weāll always keep it real-real. Especially when it comes to surrogacy and parenting, weāll tell you as it is.
Is parenting one of the greatest, most magical gifts imaginable? Absolutely. š¤
Does that mean every moment is sparkles and rainbows? Hell no. š
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Will there be days when you want to pull your hair out while on the verge of a mental breakdown? Yep. š©
Will there be days when your heart will swell because you never thought it was possible to love someone this much? Also, yep. š„¹
Having one thing be true doesnāt mean the flip side canāt be true, too. Feelings around parenting donāt fit in just one box at a time.
Itās real. Itās hard. Itās beautiful. And itās so worth it. All at the same time. ā
If youāre feeling the wealth of emotions that come with parenting. Youāre human. And youāre doing amazing. š«¶
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Did you know that many agencies will quote an average journey time between 16-18 months (this doesnāt even count time on the waitlist if youāre an intended parent)? š±š
So, every time we run our numbers, weāre always beyond proud of our team and the fact that our average time from match to delivery for surrogates AND intended parents is one year. šONE YEAR š
How can we do it?! āØSurrogacy MAGIC! āØ
Well, kind of. Weāve worked hard to perfect our processes, creating a magical system that works while prioritizing education and personal connection with every surrogate and intended parent. It truly is something special.
Can you imagine how different your life could be in just one year if you started your journey today? If youāre ready, weād love to connect with you and help you experience this magic for yourself!
š For surrogates, start here: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
š For intended parents, start here: surro.is/parents
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Sometimes, on the path to parenthood, you can experience incredibly difficult hardships. Hardships that hurt, hardships that feel unfair, hardships that make it hard to look ahead.
If you come to these bumps in the road, itās okay to pause and take the time to process and feel your feelings. You donāt need to mask what youāre feeling for others. You are allowed to grieve the possibility you were hoping for. No matter if itās at the beginning of your journey, middle, or end. Your feelings are valid. And you should never have to feel like you need to face them alone. š«
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With our agency, you will never feel alone. Our compassionate team is with you every step of the way, and we have a network of mental health professionals that can help you through any hardship you may face.
If youād like to learn more about how we can support you, visit our website at surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
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š£ Dada, Daddy, Daaaad, Bro. š£
Whatever your kiddos call you, weāre screaming a Happy Fatherās Day to you! š
We hope your day is filled with sunshine, hugs, a really sweet handmade gift, and maybe an uninterrupted nap in your favorite chair. The love, strength, and patience you bring every day in parenting do not go unnoticed. š«¶
And if youāre a father waiting for your baby to be born, remember you deserve to be celebrated too! Your love for your future baby is already there, so do something special today to acknowledge your journey to parenthood, even if itās something small like treating yourself to your favorite ice cream. You deserve it! š©µš
#FathersDay #DadsDay #Father #Dads #IF #IntendedFathers #IPs #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney
š„ Just a little back-and-forth from meā¦ and me šš
Because when youāre a surrogate, you get all the questions ā āSoā¦ the baby isnāt yours?ā āButā¦ why would you do it?ā
Hereās a glimpse into those conversations ā the curiosity, the misconceptions, and the pure love that drives it all. ā¤ļø
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šļø INCOMING: NEW WEBINAR SERIES! Weāre partnering with the amazing @embrahealth for real surrogacy conversations focused on supporting you through your journey. These webinars will be hosted monthly, so make sure to register so you don`t miss these incredible talks.
NEXT FRIDAY: Handling Delays, Losses, & the Unknown- Learn how to walk through the tough parts of the surrogacy journey with grace.
š Live Webinar: Friday, June 20 @ 12:30 pm PST
š Zoom: Free + open to all surrogates
š©š½āāļø Host: Dr. Sadaf from Embra Health
š Registration Link: https://tr.ee/OWm7iJbBFs (also in our linktree!)
Each month, weāll hold space for validation, emotional tools, and real community support ā because you deserve to feel seen, heard, and held through it all. š
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In celebration of Pride Month, š³ļøāšwe fondly remember the āSurrogacy Is A Podcastā episode where Casey and Sunshine got to sit down with the excited new dads-to-be, Brian Patrick Flynn (you might recognize him as the HGTV Dream Home Designer) and his husband, Hollis Smith. š¤
Before their sweet babe was born (she is now 1 and on the move!), these incredible dads shared just how appreciative they are of surrogacy and the amazing surrogate who helped them expand their family.
Sunshine also talks about her experience carrying for two dads and why it was so important to her to show her support for same-sex families so her son could see. š«¶
This heartfelt episode is worth a listen, even a year later! š„¹To find it, check out the podcast link in our Linktree or search for āSurrogacy Is A Podcastā on your preferred podcast platform.
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We know itās so HARD to put so much trust in someone else, especially when itās something as important as caring for your child. There are probably several āwhat-ifsā running through your head (like the one we address in the post here), which is perfectly normal and human. š«
Thatās why itās so important to have a surrogacy team (surrogate+agency+ industry professionals, etc!) that you feel comfortable talking through these concerns with. Holding your doubts in can eat away at you and spiral beyond the original worry.
Your team is here for you toā¦
āØTalk through scenarios together and come up with a game plan.
āØUnderstand your personal story and the worries you haveānot to try to talk you out of them, but to have a deeper understanding of where everyone is coming from.
āØHelp you with your biggest goalāto build your family.
Surrogacy is a team effort. š
And you picked your surrogate to be on your team for a reason. Sheās committed and going to do whatever it takes to help you. š
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #IPs #IntendedParents #IPSupport #SurrogacyJourney #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
