We connect

amazing moms

with future parents

for an incredible journey.

We connect

amazing moms

with future parents

for an incredible journey.

This isn't just any

Surrogacy Journey...

…and we’re not a typical surrogacy agency. That’s why surrogates choose us first.

And it’s why we have one of the best surrogate support platforms in the industry.

For the last 3 years, Surrogacy Is has been inspiring the most amazing moms to become surrogates, helping them find their perfect agency, and supporting them along the way, at no cost to them.

That’s how we’ve helped over 1500 candidates start their surrogacy journeys since 2020.

In our search to find the “perfect agency” for the incredible moms who choose to become surrogates, we’ve learned so much. We’ve learned how some of the most solid and supportive agencies thrive, and we’ve learned where many break down, even the best ones.

And in this search, we’ve realized something… to find our ideal agency, we needed to create it ourselves… and now we’ve done just that.

Surrogacy stories from

Real-Life Supermoms

Kay Surrogate
Kay, Experienced Surrogate

Here's what to know about how we advocate for surrogates...

We’ve designed our agency with YOU in mind…

We will be honest about whether or not we have parents who are looking for candidates just like you. If we don’t have the right match for you, we can share your profile with our partner agencies that we’ve vetted and trust, so you don’t waste hours filling out long-form applications only to be turned away or ignored or worse — land with an agency you regret!

We insist on stellar communication…

From your first contact with us, all the way through Intake, Matching, and Journey Coordination, you will always be up to date and have clarity on what’s coming next. If you have questions, you can count on us to pick up the phone or reply to your text or email the same day.

We help you find fair surrogacy compensation

We help you to set your base surrogacy compensation to make sure it’s fair and you are getting what you deserve for the generous gift you’re giving! Aside from your base, our benefit package is thoughtful and among the best (if not THE BEST) in the industry, because it was designed by surrogates who know the sacrifice it takes to help someone bring their baby into the world.

We’re with you every step of the journey

We provide free coaching to navigate the complex journey, through webinars, our online groups, and one-on-one calls whenever you need it! Each of our Surrogate Advocates are experienced surrogates themselves. Our Journey Coordinators have years of experience under their belts, and bring unique skills to the table such as a background in Social Work, Midwifery, and Mental Health. Our team is committed to providing wrap around support for parents and surrogates on this once in a lifetime journey.

And the best part is...

advocating for surrogates benefits everyone.

Sam Surrogate
Sam, Experienced Surrogate & Surrogate Advocate

Take our short 8-minute quiz!

Morgan & La’Phadra

Surrogate Advocate & Experienced Surrogate

We are true

surrogate advocates

Kay_Experienced Surro
Kay, Experienced Surrogate

A surrogate advocate is a person or group who truly advocates for the brave, amazing moms who decide to become surrogates.

We take being surrogate advocates very seriously. Being a surrogate advocate isn’t a marketing gimmick. It’s not a side-hustle. It’s everything.

Surrogates, in our eyes, are the most important piece of this equation. And being surrogate advocates doesn’t mean we don’t advocate for intended parents. 

Quite the opposite. 

We believe that advocating for surrogates is the key to the smoothest and most successful surrogacy journeys possible. 

While most agencies say they “advocate” for the surrogate, do they really?

If you think about it, the perspective many agencies have comes down to human nature. Most agencies are intended parent focused, because that’s the ultimate client they’re designed to serve. And that’s okay! We serve intended parents, too!

After all, the purpose of a surrogacy agency is to help intended parents achieve their dream of having a baby, and we think that’s an absolutely noble purpose. It’s our purpose, too!

But far too often, the surrogate’s interests can be dismissed, so a true surrogate advocate helps balance that equation.

We’re not looking to tip the scales, just balance them.

No, we don’t think so. If someone truly advocates for surrogates, the interests and experience of the surrogate should be the mission of the company. Their organization should be surrogate focused first & foremost.

That doesn’t mean that intended parents aren’t a focus, as well. But it’s our philosophy that, a well-prepared, well-informed, well-supported surrogate is the cornerstone of the most successful surrogacy journeys.

How we serve intended parents is by taking great care of the surrogates who make the surrogacy journey possible.

And we’re not talking about creating surrogacy divas here. We’re talking about ensuring equal support, and mutual respect. We believe that, if the end goal is for the intended parent(s) to bring home their sweet baby, and for the surrogate (and her family) to have their lives changed in the most positive way, this is how it’s done.

Here’s what’s important to know about us. We’re surrogate advocates first. That’s how we started, and that’s what we’ll always be.

Every surrogate that goes through our process gets the following things that most (all?) agencies don’t offer:

  • A surrogate advocate who supports you through your journey 100% free
  • Access to a library of video and other resources to help you feel confident and prepared each step of the way
  • Ongoing mental health support throughout the journey and up to 6 months postpartum
  • One-on-one IVF Education and Injection Support

Most surrogacy agencies have long lists of intended parents waiting to be matched with their perfect surrogate. If an advocacy group is owned by such an agency, it might be difficult for them to truly encourage any surrogate who enters their process to consider all of her options when they really want her to work with their agency—regardless of whether that’s the best fit for her.

Because we spent our formative years building a platform and relationship with our partner agencies, it’s easy for us to know what each of their IP clientele is looking for and when a surrogate might be happier and have a better match through another program than our own. We only want to manage journeys that we can do an excellent job, so if we cannot offer that to a surrogate candidate, we have no motivation not to be honest about that! 

And here’s what’s important for you to know about working w/ Surrogacy Is… we’ve spent the past 3+ years getting to know the ins and outs of over 100 agencies, and in that process we’ve narrowed it down to a small handful that truly meet the bar we set for our partners — if my sister wanted to be a surrogate, would I feel confident referring her to this agency? If the answer is not a resounding yes, then we don’t refer to them. It’s that simple. 

But all this knowledge has also empowered us to create a program so special and unique, that takes the lessons from the best of the best and pitfalls we’ve seen so many agencies run into throughout our careers in this industry, that Surrogacy Is as an agency, is truly a gold standard in Journey Coordination and Support for Surrogates and Intended Parents. We’re so excited to be able offer this option to Surrogates and IP’s and make the journey feel seamless  from beginning to end. We live for this work and to hear those words at the end of every journey “I could not have done this without you.”

We’ve got you.

Not just an agency, but yes.

We started off as surrogate advocates, and we’ll always be surrogate advocates first and foremost. 

We’re not an agency that starts a “surrogate advocate group” as a marketing gimmick. If you’re already an agency, why not just advocate for surrogates as an agency, if you truly care about advocating for surrogates?

And there are agencies that truly do this for surrogates, don’t get us wrong. For example, the agencies we provided in the past as options for you are agencies who truly advocate for surrogates.

So, if anything, we’re surrogate advocates that started an “agency” to better serve our surrogates. If we can be the best option and fit for what you need in your journey, then we should be your agency.

Can you see the difference?

So, if you haven’t yet, take our 8-minute quiz, then schedule a 1-on-1 call with a surrogate advocate (they’re experienced surrogates, too!) and they can walk you through what surrogacy could look like for you and your family!

(The content above has been updated to better fit our definition of what a surrogate advocate is. To see our original copy, click here.)

Evie_Surrogate
Evie, Experienced Surrogate

We understand

every surrogate is unique.

Brittany Surrogate
Brittany, Experienced Surrogate

The journey of surrogacy is an amazing, life-changing experience.

Moms get to help another family get started while bringing herself the opportunity to do the things she’s always dreamed of for her own family.

Every single woman who volunteers to take on this journey to help another family become whole, does so with lots of different ideas, expectations, and motivations.

Whether you’ve seen first-hand the struggles of infertility for someone you love and care about, or you are simply exploring the idea out of curiousity, it’s important that you are informed about the process, the risks, and the rewards of helping someone else in such a tremendous way.

As much as intended parents have ideas about who they want their surrogate to be, and how they imagine her lifestyle and values while caring for their unborn child, surrogates also have expectations and hopes for the type of family they want to share this journey with. It’s our goal to connect amazing moms with the right surrogacy agencies to bring their dream to life, too.

We believe with all our hearts that surrogacy is family, sisterhood, strength. Surrogacy is… Love.

Kristina

Experienced Surrogate

There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.

A smooth journey requires

the right professionals.

Kelsey Surrogate
Kelsey, Experienced Surrogate

A good surrogacy agency matches surrogates with hopeful people who want to have a baby. They thoroughly screen potential surrogates and parents and guide them through the entire process, including timely disbursement of funds to the surrogate, and providing support until a short while after delivery.

BUT, NOT ALL SURROGACY AGENCIES ARE CREATED EQUAL.

There are so many parties involved in the delicate emotional, legal and financial process and agency oversight is a must.

The right agency will make sure all medical bills are taken care of by the trust and escrow so that nothing remains on the surrogate’s shoulders after delivery.

Kelsey Surrogate
Kelsey, Experienced Surrogate
Kristina Surrogate
Kristina, Experienced Surrogate

We empower you to

design your journey.

Kristina Surrogate
Kristina, Experienced Surrogate

Unlike going directly to any other agency, we have your best interest in mind from the jump. If we can’t meet what you’re looking for, we’re not afraid to tell you — but not just that, we’re equipped to help you find it through one of our trusted partner agencies! 

Whether you find yourself fitting in perfectly with our program, or you choose one of our trusted partners, the agency will be responsible for communicating between attorneys, doctors, psychologists and others to make sure everyone is in the loop at all times so you don’t have to balance all the details.

What sets us apart

from others...

La'Phadra_Surrogate
La'Phadra, Experienced Surrogate

Our founders have been surrogates 2 and 3 times each, and have worked closely with dozens of agencies throughout their careers.

Our Surrogate Advocates, who are also experienced surrogates, know what it’s like to be in your position both as novice first time surrogates and with more experience.

We know what it’s like to pick an agency and wonder, “was that the right choice? Did I choose the right agency?”

Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know, so we’re here to help you decide, whether it’s our program, or one of the vetted agencies we partner with. You will land in a safe place with real people who will consider what you want out of your surrogacy journey, and help you get there.

We’ve been called “Surrogacy Doulas”… we think that fits us well!

La'Phadra, Experienced Surrogate

Kelsey

Experienced Surrogate

So... what's it like

to be a surrogate?

We’re looking for unicorns like you

You may not realize it, but your body’s ability to create a healthy baby AND bring it into the world isn’t just amazing — it’s rare.

You may not have felt special as you struggled to see your feet and you stopped fitting into your bras, but we promise: you really are so, so freaking special.

And we need moms just like you to bring joy to a family in the making and to your family as well.

Take our short 8-minute quiz!

Are we the real deal?

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Meet Our Founders...❤️

Sunshine Hanson

Sunshine Hanson

Founder, President, 3x Surrogate

Fueled with the mission to add more heart to surrogacy journeys.

If you ever get the pleasure of meeting our co-founder, Sunshine Hanson, you’ll quickly realize she’s as warm as her name suggests and as fun as her ever-changing hair color.

Another thing that’s hard to miss about Sunshine is her passion for surrogacy.

In 2017, Sunshine transitioned from teaching high school English to working in the surrogacy industry. With her experience as a 3x gestational surrogate, she wanted nothing more than to be a part of helping surrogates have beautiful journeys.

But as she dove into the industry, Sunshine couldn’t shake the feeling that there just wasn’t enough advocacy, transparency, and support in the community. That feeling grew so strong that Sunshine knew she had to do something bigger to improve the surrogacy industry.

Together with her husband, Kyle, she used that feeling to build Surrogacy Is. Shortly after launch, they recognized the need was larger than they anticipated, and they needed help to fulfill their mission, and her former colleague, Casey, was the missing piece of the foundation. Together, they formed a dedicated team and created an advisory program where surrogates could learn about the process and feel confident in their choices. Then, after 3 years, the dream evolved even further when the team found that intended parents weren’t getting the same considerations. Determined to do what feels right for everyone involved, the Surrogacy Is agency was born.

When Sunshine isn’t sharing her tips and surrogacy stories online or spreading her infectious passion about surrogacy, you might find her relaxing in the pool with her daughter and three dogs, or testing out a new brunch spot in Savannah.

Casey Bojorquez

Casey Bojorquez

Founder, Vice President, 2x Surrogate

She won’t rest until everyone is taken care of.

Have you ever met someone who instantly made you feel so good inside? Someone who just radiates love and makes you feel safe like you can trust they’ll always be on your side? That’s Casey—our co-founder, Vice President, and collective mama of Surrogacy Is.

On a deeper level, Casey Bojorquez is a two-time surrogate with over a decade of experience working in the surrogacy industry. Throughout her work, she couldn’t help but feel similar sentiments as Sunshine about the industry— so she was thrilled when Sunshine and Kyle approached her about joining forces to create something better for the surrogacy world.

Casey started out by developing a more comprehensive surrogate outreach and community program, but she as time went on, she dreamt of doing more. Instead of trying to find the best agencies to recommend to new surrogates, she believed Surrogacy Is could become the perfect agency for both surrogates and intended parents.

So, that’s exactly what the team set out to do, and the direction of Surrogacy Is shifted to create a space where surrogates and intended parents are advocated for and supported—every step of the way.

When our lovely Casey isn’t making waves in the surrogacy world, she can be found enjoying time with her husband and four daughters at the beach or hiking a new trail.

Kyle Hanson

Founder, CEO, CMO, Husband to 3x Surrogate
(that counts, right?)

Once a skeptic… now a surrogacy evangelist.

If you’re ever looking for a mediocre Dad joke, Kyle is your guy. If jokes aren’t your thing, he’s also really good at having heart-to-hearts with surrogate partners or offering the absolute best forms of encouragement.

Our co-founder, Kyle Hanson, is the type of guy who loudly roots for you, whether you’re a surrogate or an intended parent. He wants you to have the most empowering, informative, and supported surrogacy journey possible.

Why? Because he watched his wife Sunshine go through the journey of surrogacy first-hand as a surrogate, and he witnessed the boss energy it takes for a woman to be a surrogate. He also got to meet (and bond with) both sets of her intended parents. He heard their unique paths to parenthood and sympathized with everything they had gone through to have their biggest dream come true.

When Kyle & Sunshine started talking about the idea of Surrogacy Is, it didn’t take long for him to develop what is still the base framework for how Surrogacy Is reaches so many amazing moms, every single day. In fact, he immediately started working tirelessly behind the scenes to make it a reality—and he remains the “wizard behind the curtain” for everything that helps Surrogacy Is run today.

During the day, you can usually find Kyle putting out tech fires, rallying up the marketing team, and sending a good (great?) GIF in the team chat. When he logs off, he’s usually cruising the coastal Georgia rivers with Sunshine and their daughter, Jasmine, or he’s catering to Dee Dee, Adora, and Finny, the family dogs. You might also find him performing a drum solo on any and every available surface.

They say it takes a village to raise a child. Sometimes, it takes a village to have a child.

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Would you still be a surrogate...

without Surrogacy Is?

Frequently

asked questions

Take our short 8-minute quiz now.

Surrogacy is a process where a woman carries and delivers another person or couple’s child. This pregnancy happens through in vitro fertilization (IVF), which means this woman does not have any biological connection to the baby.

The surrogate is the ‘gestational carrier;’ this means she is providing the womb to carry the embryo for the Intended Parents (IP’s).

In surrogacy, there are Intended Parents, agencies, and surrogates.

The Intended Parents (IP’s) are the individuals looking to build their family or bring a baby into the world. The agencies work directly with the IP’s, helping them find the right surrogate candidates, coordinating with attorneys, helping with logistics (insurance, psychologists, contracts, etc.) and supporting them in the decision-making process. This way the IP’s can focus on developing a relationship with the surrogate! And the surrogates are the incredible mamas who help make it all happen!

Yes, but more. 😉 First & foremost, we’re Surrogate Advocates who support amazing moms in their surrogacy journeys. That’s how we started in 2020… solely working with surrogates. We’ve been helping amazing moms choose from vetted, ethical surrogacy agencies who are motivated to do their best work for our candidates.

We’ve taken all that experience and created what we like to think is the ideal agency not just for the amazing moms who choose to be surrogates, but also the hopeful parents-to-be who are putting their all into the mission to bring home their bundle of joy.

Throughout our first 3 years solely working w/ surrogates as advocates, we’ve realized something: There aren’t as many agencies who truly advocate for parents and surrogates as we’d like… believe us… we’ve searched. 

So we decided to start an agency of our own.

There’s no one perfect agency, but we’re dedicated to becoming yours.

We offer a quick (free!) quiz to help you see if you’d be a good candidate for surrogacy. Click here to take it now!

There are several requirements for surrogates (in order to protect the health of both the surrogate and the baby). You can find them on our requirements page.

Here are a few:

–        having at least one successful, full-term pregnancy

–        being within a recommended age range

–        having a ‘healthy’ BMI

–     free of tobacco and recreational drugs

–    having a strong support system 

To be honest, some of these requirements can be confusing (or, frankly, feel a bit limiting). So, once you take the quiz, if you have questions, feel free to reach out to us! We’d be happy to explain, provide clarity on your qualifications, or work with you on the next steps in your journey.

We put ‘healthy’ in quotes for a reason—because what’s considered ‘healthy’ is so different for each person! And, depending on a myriad of other factors, you may not need to fall exactly within this range.

However, a BMI between 18-32 is recommended because this is what is considered medically healthy for a surrogate undergoing IVF and other treatments along the journey.

A BMI that falls under the range may be too low for a safe pregnancy and delivery. It may also point to underlying health conditions for the surrogate. A higher BMI can impact the effectiveness of the IVF treatment, how your body responds to the medication, and ovarian function in general. A higher BMI can also lead to pregnancy and birth complications, too, which is why this requirement is set–not only for surrogates but at all fertility clinics. 

In short, the BMI range is all about ensuring the healthiest pregnancy possible. 

First of all congratulations! Only 4 out of 10 women who take the quiz meet all of the requirements, so it’s super rare to have both the heart and the health history to qualify as a surrogate! 
The next step after passing our 8-minute quiz is to schedule a Q&A with one of our awesome surrogate advocates. They’re experienced surrogates, too! They’ll walk you through the whole process, help to build your profile, determine your ideal compensation, and match you with the best agency out there specifically to match your unique wants, needs, and personality. 

Yes! You can become a surrogate if you’ve had tubal ligation.

Tubal ligation is a surgery that involves cutting and tying the fallopian tubes (which prevents an egg from entering the uterus or sperm from passing from the tube to the egg).

In surrogacy, pregnancy happens through IVF—where the fertilized egg/embryo is transferred directly to the uterus—which doesn’t involve the tubes at all! So, in short, you can still bring your IP’s baby into the world even after tubal ligation.

  • Typical compensation packages for surrogacy consist of a base compensation ranging from $45,000 – $75,000, based on several factors plus additional payments for milestones leading up to and throughout the pregnancy, such as medication start, embryo transfer, maternity clothing at second trimester, and more.
  • All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parents’ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
  • Compensation and Benefit Packages typically start once legal contracts are signed and a trust account is fully funded with the entire surrogate compensation and expenses. 
  • Surrogates receive their base compensation in monthly installments throughout the pregnancy. 

Read more about surrogacy compensation: https://surrogacy.is/compensation/

No, your eggs won’t be used in the surrogacy process.

There are two types of surrogacy—traditional and gestational—and with gestational surrogacy (the type of surrogacy we focus on!), the IP’s eggs and sperm will be used.

So, in short, the surrogate will not be biologically related to the baby at all.

Although it might seem strange that your significant other needs a background check, this is a requirement in place to protect all aspects and all individuals in the surrogacy journey.

A background check (both for the surrogate and her spouse) helps to ensure the safety of the environment for surrogate and baby during pregnancy and birth.

(Don’t worry, the Intended parents undergo a background check too!)

Yes, you can’t have more than 2 C-sections (or 3 with a clearance letter from your OB) or more than 6 live births.

There are a few required vaccinations for surrogacy: TDAP, Varicella (chickenpox immunity), MMR (measles, mumps, rubella). Others, for example flu and COVID are flexible.

Some IP’s may have specific requirements for their surrogate to ensure safety during pregnancy and delivery, or to match their lifestyle and values.

It’s best to first take our short quiz to see if you qualify as a surrogate candidate. When you take the quiz, you’ll be able to see and understand the basic requirements.

From there, we will connect with you to learn your goals, perspectives, and values—and connect you with an agency  that honors your choices.

Typically, 21-40. We’ve had cases up to 45 get approved by an IVF clinic, but it’s rare. 

Every prospective surrogate must be at least 21 years old before she can be approved for surrogacy. This minimum age requirement is set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, based on what experts have identified as the best indicators of success for a gestational carrier.

But most importantly age restrictions exist only to protect the surrogate and the baby’s health and give the best chance for successful outcomes! 

For us to help you become a surrogate, you need to be a U.S. citizen or U.S. permanent resident.

Yes! You absolutely can be a single mom and a surrogate. You just need to make sure you have a good support system. You might need emotional support or potentially someone to be with your kids while you are attending appointments or delivering your intended parents’ magical, miracle baby.

No. All medical expenses are covered by insurance or the intended parents/agency. All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parents’ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.

Also, before surrogate pregnancy, typical benefits & compensation can include:

  • Monthly non-accountable allowance starting at $250+ per month throughout the journey
  • Mock Cycle Fee starting at $500+
  • Medication Start Fee starting at $500+
  • Signing and other bonuses starting at $1000+
  • Embryo Transfer Fee starting at $1000+
  • Health Insurance Monthly Premium (actual cost)
  • Legal Counsel (actual cost)

Parents that have decided to choose surrogacy have already been through a lot! The couples that I carried for had already fallen in love with the EMBRYOS before they transferred them to my uterus. They knew the sex of the future baby, and that they had all the normal chromosomes they should have.  They knew for a decade before trying surrogacy that they would find a way to bring those embryos to life. And that’s the story of a lot of those couples. They have invested so much time, hope, tears, and resources to make it possible for their children to be born. They will never change their mind about it!  But if they did (which they won’t!) there are fully enforceable legal contracts in place, as well as a fully funded trust account that has your entire compensation and medical expenses in it before you even begin IVF medications. The legal contract even has provisions in place for a next of kin, should anything happen to the parents before the baby is born, so there is someone ready and able to take them home and love them when they are born. When you get to the matching stage and hear the parent’s stories, you will see. Intended parents love their children just as much as we love our own.

A gestational surrogate becomes pregnant via IVF. The embryo is created in a lab, where the intended mother or donor egg is fertilized with the intended father or donor’s sperm. The embryo is then implanted into the surrogate’s uterus. With this method, the surrogate is not related to the baby. The majority of surrogacy arrangements are gestational these days. 

At first glance, it would seem obvious that a surrogate would get attached to the child, right?!

But as a surrogate, you go into the process with eyes wide open to the fact that the child you are caring for is not your own.There is not that sense of yearning you have when you’re carrying your own child, wondering if it will have your eyes or your husband’s nose. You are not choosing the baby’s name. You’re not imagining all of the big moments the way you do with your own sweet babies!

You go into the pregnancy in a very non-romantic, science-based way, and you know that this kid’s parents loved her before she was ever conceived, and fought so hard to make her life a reality.

In fact, you probably will feel more attached to the intended parents, and not the baby.

Nope! We partner with agencies all over the US, who work with surrogates, intended parents, and hospitals all over the US.
If you prefer a local match or less travel, we will help you find agency options that meet your needs, but geography won’t hurt your ability to become a surrogate.

Once we review your agency options with you and you choose your ideal agency, you’ll complete their intake process until you’re cleared to match. There are a lot more intended parents than surrogates, so matching is usually fairly quick for surrogates. From the time you complete the intake process to match, it takes about 30 days on average. 

💯 you do! We work hard to find you the right agency who has the type of intended parents you want to help. We have a great relationship with our agencies, and they know how important it is to us that they find you the intended parents you’re hoping for!

While there are very few companies who call themselves surrogate advocates, we’re definitely not all the same. For example, Surrogacy Is…❤️ is founded and privately owned by experienced surrogates whose singular focus is to advocate for other women entering this process, in the way we wish we’d had when we were starting out.

At Surrogacy is… being a surrogate advocate is not a “gimmick” or a sales pitch. It is in the DNA of each member of our organization, and our sole purpose for existing. 

While there are others out there who call themselves “surrogate advocates” most are owned or funded by agencies whose interest is to recruit surrogates into their program, whether or not it’s the right and best fit for each surrogate.

But wait, didn’t I hear you say that you’re an agency, too?

We’re a surrogate advocate group who created an agency to provide more choice to our surrogates. That’s very different than an agency who creates a “surrogate advocate” group to refer people to their agency. 

Take our short 8-minute quiz now.

When surrogates are asked if they would do it again, most of them are quick to say an absolute YES! 💯

Some may even joke that surrogacy is addicting—but the truth is the feeling you get from surrogacy is hard to recreate, and that’s why many surrogates come back to it again or are passionate about being a part of the surrogacy community. It’s indescribable and a life-changing experience for everyone involved.

If you’ve ever considered becoming a surrogate and want to see what it’s all about, start by taking our short quiz at Surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz

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Sometimes, during your journey, something beautiful happens that feels like the ultimate confirmation that you’re going through this journey with the absolute perfect IPs for you.

That’s exactly what happened to Tyeisha on her transfer day. 💞

📣 Did something like this ever happen to you on your journey? If so, we’d love to hear it in our comments!

#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyStories
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At the end of the day, there’s one common thing that binds us all together—we are human. And every human deserves certain fundamental rights, no matter their sex, religion, race, or anything else that defines them. With Human Rights Day this month, we`re continuing to celebrate and dream of a world where there`s equality, justice, and dignity for all.

We hope to do our part to make a difference and help create a more inclusive world. Who’s with us?

#HumanRights #EqualRights #HumanRightsAreNotOptional #SurrrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency
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🎙 What Does the Future Hold for Surrogacy?
In today`s episode, we tackle the tough questions with Dean Masserman from Vorzimer Masserman Fertility and Family Law Center. 🌟

How could surrogacy change if embryos were legally considered people?
What happens if someone breaks a surrogacy contract?
Could birthright citizenship laws impact international intended parents?

With 30+ years of experience, Dean shares his insights on the evolving landscape of fertility law, the potential hurdles ahead, and why surrogacy in the U.S. remains strong despite challenges.

If you’re an intended parent, surrogate, or simply curious about the future of family building, this episode is a must-listen! 🎧 (podcast link in bio!)

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As a mom, it’s so easy to wish for the next thing. You think, “Man, I can’t wait for my little one to start walking …. or start school….or start driving.” (It never goes away no matter how young or how old your kids are, BTW).

It’s great to look forward to the future but don’t let it stop you from appreciating the now.

Savor those sweet embraces while carrying your little one around. Enjoy the extra time with them before you have to share their attention with homework and friends. Relish in the moments you get to hear their chatter while chauffeuring them around. Those moments will be gone before you know it. And you’ll find yourself wishing for them back.

The future will be beautiful… but now is beautiful, too. So hang in there, mama, and squeeze in these moments while you can. 🫂

#Inspiration #Motivation #Momivation #Community #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
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Surrogates give their IPs the ultimate gift: a new baby to love for a lifetime. 🤗

Some IPs are so thankful they want to show their appreciation to their surrogate outside of her compensation. This could look like sending sweet gifts to her children or treating her to her current cravings. 😋

While gifts are never expected, a kind gesture from IPs can make a surrogate feel especially cared for and can help form a sweet bond between each side.

📣 Did you ever receive a gift from your IPs that you loved?

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"How can you feel a baby move around inside of you and not get attached?”

Like Andrea, a lot of surrogates just know they can do it. Before even committing to surrogacy, they’ve shifted their mindset to know this baby isn’t theirs and that they are doing something incredible for someone else.

One of the biggest misconceptions in surrogacy is that a surrogate will get attached to the baby—and for the majority of surrogates, that is just not the case.

📣 What other misconceptions did you have to clear up once you told your friends and family you were going to be a surrogate?

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There’s just something about Dads… and not so much even Dads but the loving Dad energy anyone can have. You know the energy…

🛠️the triple-checking when setting up a toy to make sure everything is perfect

🤪 the willingness to do the silliest things just to see their child smile

💪 the resilience to give piggybacks even when they are exhausted and sore

This energy in a child’s life is unmatched. It helps shape them and shows them the power that their special love plays in their lives.

There’s something so special about it. If you have a Dad like this in your life or someone who embodies a Dad-figure in your life, send them this post as a special reminder of how much you appreciate having them in your life. 💞

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🎙️ Coming Next Tuesday! 🎙️

What does the future look like for surrogacy?
How would surrogacy change if embryos were considered people?
If someone breaks a surrogacy contract, what are the repercussions?

In our next episode, join us as we discuss all the tough questions with Dean Masserman from Vorzimer Masserman Fertility and Family Law Center

Whether you’re currently on a surrogacy journey or planning for one in the future, make sure to mark your calendars to tune in to our next episode. You don’t want to miss Dean’s 30+ years of law & litigation experience insights!

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But really really. It takes so many to make sure surrogates and intended parents are properly protected and supported. So many that refuse to cut corners or focus on someone as a number. But rather do it the right way not the easy way. So many that have been there themselves and want nothing but the best for everyone involved. Best matches, best journey, best possible outcome. That’s what we want for you. ...

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There are so many rewarding and special moments a surrogate gets to experience with her IPs throughout their journey. This particular story from one of our founders, Casey, always touches our hearts. 💗

There must be some winter allergies affecting my eyes because, TEARS. 🥺🥲😭

📣 What was your favorite moment in your surrogacy journey? Share it with us in the comments below ⬇️

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You never know how much becoming a mother will change you. In some ways, it feels like a new version of yourself is born at the same time as your child.

Motherhood brings new strength, new experiences, and a new type of love—a love like you’ve never known before.

✍️ While you’re juggling ways to take care of your own needs while also meeting your children’s needs, your priorities start to change.

🙌 When you’re battling with trying to comfort a colicky baby with no sleep, your resilience in moments you felt hopeless starts to shape you.

🫶 And the way you start to look at the world through your child’s eyes inspires you to be more accepting and loving toward others.

Motherhood will change you—but in the best possible way imaginable.
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🌟 November was nothing short of extraordinary for our Surrogacy Is community! 🎉 We’re overjoyed to celebrate 12 incredible matches, 8 heartbeat confirmations, 1 precious baby born, and 5 hope-filled embryo transfers! 💕👶✨

Each milestone is a testament to the resilience, trust, and love that fuel these remarkable journeys. To our incredible surrogates and intended parents, thank you for allowing us to be a part of your stories. Together, we’re bringing dreams to life, one step at a time. 🫶

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Surrogacy changes lives. Not only for the intended parents, but for the surrogate too.

Yes, a surrogate gets paid and the financial leg up it provides can be huge—but on top of that, it changes her heart. The empowerment she feels knowing she is helping someone else build family is unlike anything else.

It truly takes someone special to become a surrogate. If you’ve ever thought of partaking in the life-changing experience of surrogacy, take our short quiz today to see if you qualify. Surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz

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Whether you’re a surrogate with our agency or on a journey with one of our partner agencies, our team will be there to support you and answer any and all of your questions. Surrogacy is a community, and at the end of the day, we just want you, as a surrogate, to have the best possible experience imaginable. 🫶

If you’ve considered becoming a surrogate and would like to connect with a caring team that will guide you through every step—let’s connect! Take our short quiz to get started at ➡️ surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz

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Today’s Giving Tuesday 🫶, and we’re asking our community to share their favorite ways to give back.

Let us know in the comments ⬇️ what are your favorite charities and fundraisers to support? If you want, include a donation link 🔗 You might inspire someone to give to your favorite cause, too. 🤗

One of our favorite organizations to support is @london.is.the.reason, a beautiful non-profit that supports surrogates and intended parents who have experienced loss during a journey. If you`d like to, follow the linktr.ee in our bio to donate.

No matter which beautiful cause you choose to support, together, we can spread kindness in a special way today 💕

#GivingTuesday #GiveBack #MakeADifference #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyIsAgency
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We love that Lael called Surrogacy Is the sisterhood of storks. It truly encompasses everything we set out to do. 💞

When you work with our team, we’re always there for you to answer any questions, cheer you on, and be that friend you can talk to whenever you need it.

If this sounds like the surrogacy sisterhood you’d like to experience, start the process today by taking our short quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz

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Today, we celebrate a true inspiration, Rosa Parks.

69 years ago she stood up to injustice and refused to give up her seat on a bus in Montgomery, Alabama. This small act of defiance was a huge defining moment in the Civil Rights Movement and eventually led to the desegregation of public transportation.

May we always remember her legacy, and may her bravery serve as a reminder that even the smallest actions can create powerful waves of change.

#RosaParksDay #RosaParks #Courage #CivilRights #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
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Because of some amazing surrogates, these Dads are now proud parents. 🥹🥹🥹

Without surrogacy, these incredible Dads wouldn’t be able to experience the joy of having children of their own. To have the child they’ve always dreamed of and wished for. To experience the immeasurable love of being a Dad.

The whole thing is just so beautiful, and we’re so honored to be part of stories like this every day. 💙🩵🩷💜

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We will never stop feeling giddy getting reviews like this. 🥲🥰🤗

One of our top goals at Surrogacy Is has always been to help new (and even experienced) surrogates feel educated about all things surrogacy so they can feel guided, supported, and empowered throughout the process.

If this is the kind of community you’re looking for, we’d love to support you on our surrogacy journey. Learn more at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz

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There’s nothing else quite like it.. truly. It’s so powerful to be a part of helping create a family for someone. It’s this beautiful completeness that comes at the end of the journey that’s filled with so much light. ...

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Does surrogacy feel transactional? Most of the time, not at all.

Sure, some intended parents and surrogates prefer a more business-like relationship, but the majority are looking to build a relationship with one another. Some become BFFs, and others feel more like extended family. 🥰🥰🥰

When going through a surrogacy journey with someone else, there is so much focus on connection, understanding, compassion, and gratitude. Hardly ever is the financial portion in the mix of that—in fact, that’s why a lot of agencies (like ours) act as the neutral space for dealing with and discussing finances. Because most people would rather avoid that awkwardness altogether when trying to build a relationship 😬🙅‍♀️🙅‍♂️

How would you describe your relationship with your intended parents or surrogate? Let us know in the comments below ⬇️

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We try 😅 but it’s so easy to overthink these things! That’s why having a solid matching coordinator is the bees 🐝 knees! They look out for us and thtose match calls are typically the tell all! ...

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It’s worth it, it’s worth it, it’s worth is 😅 For some of us that first year is BRUTAL. But we’d do to all again because we love em!

Fun fact.. as a surrogate you rest and recover blissfully at home after birth while the new baby is at home keeping its parents wide awake at night 😆. We send love and big hugs, we’ve been there. We get it!
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Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃🥧🍂

Here at Surrogacy Is, we’re so incredibly thankful for our community and all the surrogates and intended parents we get the pleasure of working with.

Thank you for being a part of our surro-fam 🫶

#Thanksgiving #TurkeyDay #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyIsAgency
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🎉 Welcome Baby #8! 🎉
We are thrilled to share the arrival of another precious little one, made possible through the incredible gift of surrogacy! 🫶

Jennifer, our amazing surrogate, joined us in May 2023. After a perfect match in August 2023, a beautiful partnership over the next 15 months has led to this unforgettable moment.

Baby has arrived safely and is already surrounded by so much love! Please join us in celebrating this heartwarming milestone and sending love to both families! 💕 Here’s to the beginning of many cherished memories for everyone involved!
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It’s hard to truly understand that magical moment without yet experiencing it. It’s magical. The room is filled with this undeniable energy of magic, love, joy, 🥹 completion.

As a reminder, as a gestational surrogate the baby is not genetically related to you and you go into the journey knowing fully that this is their baby and looking forward to the moment they will hold their baby. 💕
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Yall were doing fine out here- we don’t need your rude comments about “it’s prostitution” “a form of slavery” “women’s exploitation”

We CHOOSE surrogacy as surrogates and we LOVE & RESPECT surrogates as Intended Parents & surrogacy professionals. We are creating lifelong love and families. Take your hate elsewhere because there’s no room for that here in our bubble of love 💕
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Whatever as long as it’s comfortable that’s all we care about at this point.

Did you know surrogates receive an allowance for maternity clothing? Least you can go buy a handful of oversized shirts and cute sweats right?
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What fears are holding you back from considering surrogacy? 🫣

Is it that the intended parents are going to change their mind? Let us help you calm those nerves. Intended parents don’t go into a surrogacy journey just on a whim. They usually had to go through a ton of planning and prepping for it, including creating embryos and funding escrow accounts. The fact that someone would ever put so much heart, time, and money into something and just walk away is EXTREMELY unlikely. I mean, would you?!

No, way right?!

So if you’re considering becoming a surrogate but are worried about getting stuck with a baby, know that ☝️The chances of that happening are less than ultra rare, and ✌️There will be legal documentation in place to prevent that from happening (And that’s why it’s always SO important to work with trustworthy and experienced surrogacy professionals).

What other fears or doubts do you have about surrogacy that we can help answer for you? Let us know in the comments below. ⬇️

#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacySupport #SurrogateStories #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
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#factsonfacts 💯 This right here is love. Putting love back into the world through surrogacy is so powerful.

Photo & Video credit to the amazing 🤩 @alexandivannamedia
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Louder for the ones in the back! 📣 We see you, we are you! 💕 ...

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🎙️ The Surrogacy Diaries: Episode 1 is here! 🎙️
Join us for an unfiltered journey into the world of surrogacy with three incredible surrogates—Jami, Marissa, and Sam—from our Surrogacy Is team. 🌟 From laugh-out-loud moments to the heartwarming stories that define their paths, we’re diving deep into the realities of life as a surrogate.

💬 Expect candid conversations, surprising stories (yes, even post-transfer chaos!), and the unique perspectives only they can share.

✨ This is real. This is raw. This is surrogacy like you’ve never heard before.

🎧 Don’t miss out—tune in now (link in bio!) and let us know your favorite moment in the comments! 👇

#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyPodcast #SurrogacyIsLove 💕
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Not to scare any new surrogates or anything but those progesterone needles ain’t playin’ and we promise you can do it, we weren’t even sure at first our first time but practice and repetition helps & we promise it’s worth it. You’ll get through it! I mean, miracles take a bit of hard work, right?! ...

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“𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒾𝓈 𝓈𝑜 𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈 𝑜𝒻 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝑒 𝒶 𝓈𝓊𝓇𝓇𝑜𝑔𝒶𝓉𝑒. 𝐼 𝓌𝑜𝓊𝓁𝒹𝓃’𝓉 𝒷𝑒 𝒶𝒷𝓁𝑒 𝓉𝑜 𝒹𝑜 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉... 𝒷𝓊𝓉 𝐼 𝓌𝒾𝓈𝒽 𝐼 𝒸𝑜𝓊𝓁𝒹.”

This is a common response many surrogates hear when sharing about their surrogacy journey—and if it’s something you’ve heard yourself before, pat yourself on the back, girl. 🤗 Because you did do it…and you gave a special family the gift of being a parent.

💞 That’s incredible. And we’re so proud of you (and we hope you’re proud of yourself, too)! 💞

If you’re curious about what it takes to become a surrogate and do something AH-MAZING, take our short quiz to find out today: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz

#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacySupport #SurrogateStories #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
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Of course surrogates aren’t emotionless towards their surro buddy-geeeez 😆 but we are 1 milli % content with delivering & not bringing home or caring for baby because he or she is not ours! In no way are we genetically related!

We are actually overjoyed and hold a feeling of completeness when we get to see our belly buddy united with his or her parents who have waited, yearned, prayed, dreamed for them everyday.
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Mannnnn does pregnancy 🤰 take a 180 once that discomfort becomes all too real. But it’s always worth it. Best part as a surrogate besides literally making someone family and dream come true?! …actually relaxing postpartum and not waking up all night or feeding a babe all day 😆 ...

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Becoming a parent through surrogacy can have its ups and downs. There are times of feeling overwhelmed with uncertainty, doubt, and hopelessness. Then, there are moments of pure excitement, joy, and extreme elation.

But through it all… there was a feeling that never wavered. The love. 💓💓💓💓

Even when the path felt unclear, your love for your unborn child kept you on your journey until they could be placed into your arms. Then without even realizing it’s possible, that love grew even stronger. 💗

If your path to parenthood right now feels unforeseeable, we’d love to help. Our agency has a 90-day match guarantee, a no-money upfront policy, and IP support like no other—and it would be our honor to help your biggest wish come true. 🫶

To find out more visit our site at: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents

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Surrogacy is magical. It’s a light in a darkened world. It’s love beyond measure. Its unification. It’s just freaking beautiful and indescribable. ...

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